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I'm Elvery, therapist, relationship expert, coach, consultant, and speaker. I know what it feels like to carry the weight of expectations while still longing for deeper connection. I’ve been the woman trying to do it all. I’ve been in the moments where love felt out of rhythm. And I’ve seen how easily leaders can lose themselves when culture and connection take a back seat.
That’s why I’ve dedicated my life to helping women, couples, and organizations elevate how they love, live, and lead.
With a rich background in relationships, leadership, and human connection, I bring more than strategies, I bring lived experience. For over 10 years, I’ve worked at the intersection of personal growth, relational health, and cultural awareness. My work is rooted in research-backed practices, but delivered in a way that speaks to the real, lived experiences of my clients and audiences.
I believe healing doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens in community, in rhythm, and in spaces that honor both culture and humanity. My approach blends:
When you work with me, whether through coaching, a support circle, a keynote, or consulting, you’re not just getting another program. You’re getting a guide who has walked the path, done the work, and continues to live it daily.
Together, we’ll identify the patterns holding you back, reset your rhythm, and help you create lasting change, so you can thrive in love, in life, and in leadership.
I’ve been married to my high school sweetheart since 1998, mother of 3 adult children. Born and raised in Gary, IN with class and grit. My story is proof that you can build a life and love that feels whole even when the world tells you to keep performing, pleasing, and pushing through.
I’m here to remind you: you don’t have to do it all alone anymore.