Love Minus Limits

A Relationship Growth Community for Black Couples
Guided by Elvery Tinsley, Therapist + Relationship Coach

You’re committed to your relationship but something feels off.

You keep having the same arguments.
You feel unheard, disconnected, or misunderstood.
You're craving more joy, more intimacy, and more tools to help you grow closer together not apart.

You’re not broken. You’re out of rhythm.

To put it simply, you may be stuck in a cycle.

You’re not alone and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.

If you’re tired of...

  • Walking on eggshells

  • Feeling emotionally distant

  • Arguing more than connecting

  • Knowing there’s more to your relationship but not knowing how to reach it

...this space was made for you.

This is Where Love Minus Limits Comes In…

Created by therapist and relationship coach Elvery Tinsley, Love Minus Limits is a community that helps Black couples like you reconnect with real tools, cultural insight, and therapeutic support.

Through our Harmony Collective Membership, you’ll get a clear path to reset your relationship rhythm without pressure or perfection.

The Harmony Collective For Couples

Inside the membership, each month you’ll receive:

  • A fresh monthly theme rooted in one of our six core pillars

  • A short video, article, or audio teaching

  • A monthly toolkit (journal prompts, rituals, check-ins, exercises, etc.)

  • A live Coaching + Q&A session to receive guidance in real time

    • Meets 2nd Tuesday of Every Month @ 8-9:30p

  • Community engagement

  • Priority access & registration to all events & retreats

  • Occasional drop ins from guest therapist and coaches

Ready for Deeper Connection?

Start your journey by joining the Harmony Collective as a founding member:

As a founding member, you’ll receive:

  • Locked in Lifetime Rate of $39 mo. or $390 yr.

  • Founding Member Recognition in the community

  • Early Access to New Content

  • Code to Invite a friend for One Month Free

  • Founding Member Only Meet Ups

If you don’t take action, the disconnection lingers.

The conflict keeps circling.


And love starts to feel more like a responsibility than a relationship.

3 Simple Ways To Connect:

Join The Collective

The official Harmony Collective launches Fall ‘25. Join now and get access as an exclusive Founding Member with perks. You will also be able to lock in on our lifetime rate even when the price increases.

Join the Private Facebook Group

Our private Facebook group is where the Love Minus Limits community comes alive. Come through for relationship gems, real conversation, and connection with other Black couples doing the work. No pressure, no judgment, just support and growth in real time.

Take Relationship Rhythm Quiz

Find out which stage your relationship is in and get custom tools to help you grow, reconnect, or strengthen your bond. In just 2 minutes, you'll uncover the patterns shaping your love and what to do next.

When you say yes to support, everything starts to shift.

✅ You’ll feel seen and heard again
✅ You’ll learn how to talk without shutting down
✅ You’ll rebuild trust, closeness, and vision
✅ You’ll stop surviving and start thriving in love

This is what Love Minus Limits is all about.

Word From Other Couples

Your Relationship Doesn’t Need To Be Perfect.

It just needs space, support, and rhythm.

Let this be your reset. Let this be your rhythm.
You deserve a love that feels good, every day.