
Love Minus Limits
A Community Rooted in Real Love and Connection for Black Couples
Love Minus Limits Isn’t Just a Community, it’s a movement.
Welcome to Love Minus Limits new home!
Now reimagined as a community under the Elvery Tinsley brand, it remains a sacred space for Black couples who are ready to break cycles, build emotional safety, and grow relationships that last.
This is where Black love gets room to breathe—where the performance stops, the healing starts, and connection gets real.
Who Is It For?
Love Minus Limits is for Black couples, married, engaged, or deeply committed, who are ready to invest in their relationship and grow together.
It’s for couples who:
Want to strengthen their bond through intentional, guided connection
Are navigating real-life challenges and want tools to stay aligned
Appreciate spaces where they don’t have to explain their love, culture, or commitment
Value growth, but also joy, softness, laughter, and legacy
Whether you're in a season of rebuilding, recommitting, or maintaining what you've created, this space is for you.
Why Community Matters?
Love Minus Limits isn’t just about couples growing privately, it’s about building connection publicly, too. We believe Black love deserves community.
This community is for you if you:
Want to be in rooms with other thriving and evolving Black couples
Are looking for shared wisdom, real conversations, and collective healing
Believe that healthy relationships should be celebrated, not just survived
Want a space where their love isn’t just understood, it’s uplifted
This is where Black couples come to connect, not just with each other but with other couples doing the work, asking the hard questions, and choosing each other daily.
What Happens Inside This Community?
Love Minus Limits now lives across multiple touchpoints, still rooted in the same mission, with expanded ways to connect:
Annual Retreat & Luxury Events
Relationship Rhythm Reset- 90 Day Connection Reboot Program
Relationship Support & Expert Tips
Conversations & Connection-Based Challenges
Signature Experiences
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Relationship Rhythm Retreat
Looking to get in sync with your boo? Join us for a transformative luxury retreat designed specifically for couples to reset, reconnect and get into their rhythm. Our retreats offer a nurturing environment to explore your relationship rhythm, enhance communication, and deepen your connection. Through guided sessions and interactive activities, you'll gain valuable tools to strengthen your bond and build a resilient partnership. Experience the joy of rediscovering each other and leave with a renewed sense of unity and purpose.
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Themed Couples Events
Our luxury events are designed for couples who want more than a night out, they want an experience. From our signature Black Love Matters experience to our Luxury Quarterly Events, each gathering is curated to celebrate connection, deepen intimacy, and remind you why you chose each other. Expect good vibes, real conversations, and unforgettable moments rooted in joy, growth, and Black love.
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Relationship Rhythm Reset
A 90-Day Connection Reboot for Couples Ready to Reignite, Realign, and Recommit
This isn’t just another relationship course, it’s a transformative journey built for couples who are tired of surviving and ready to start thriving. In just 90 days, you’ll move from disconnection and frustration to clarity, emotional safety, and deeper intimacy. Using our signature Relationship Rhythm Framework, you’ll learn to navigate conflict without chaos, communicate with confidence, and build a fierce foundation that lasts.
3 Easy Ways Join The Community
Plug Into The Movement
Subscribe to the Empowered With Elvery newsletter! You will receive weekly insights, tools, and real talk straight to your inbox. The emails combines the full scope of my work as a therapist, relationship expert, and healing facilitator.
Say Yes To More Than Survival
Our private Facebook group is where the Love Minus Limits community comes alive. Come through for relationship gems, real conversation, and connection with other Black couples doing the work. No pressure, no judgment, just support and growth in real time.
Thrive In Love Together
Use what you learn to strengthen your relationship and reconnect with what matters most. Engage in workshops, retreats, and conversations that help you break patterns, deepen connection, and build lasting love.
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